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By Sasha Pasulka
I remember playing a game with my mom when I was a littlegirl. It went like this:
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Dramaticmuch? Welcome to my brain. (I blame too much Beverly Hills, 90210 as a child. In fact, if you listen closely, mybrain sounds a lot like Valerie Malone.)
My mind’stold me this story before. Many times. If you look at the historic evidence, thisstory is later proven to be a colossal lie. I know now that when my mind kicksin with that story and doesn’t let it go, I am on the precipice of enormouspersonal and professional growth. I’m about to develop new skills and new waysof thinking, a broader, deeper sense of confidence; I’m about to become braverand sharper and more polished, to make a quantum leap in my capabilities, in mysense of self.
That doesn’tmake it any less terrifying.
“I know atmy core that I can be successful at anything I set my mind to,” I told her,because my mother’s words to me as a child squirmed deep into my chest and putdown roots. They have never left;they have stood their ground quietly but firmly and grown with me all theseyears. “But something in my brain is trying to tell me otherwise.”
She noddedknowingly. “We callthat critter chatter,” she said.
“Mostpeople,” she explained, “can never tame the critters. There are only a very fewwho are able to harness it and use it to power the whisper voice. Those are thepeople who succeed in entrepreneurial ventures.”
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Am I ever inover my head? Sure, yeah, sometimes. But never for long. When the bar is sethigher, I always rise to it, despite how uncomfortable and insecure I may feelduring the process; despite the fear I experience when I’m dangling mid-air, andI’m too far up to get footing below, and I’m too far down to get my handsaround anything above me.
I have beenhere before. I will end up pulling myself clear over the bar.
But rightnow? Still a little bit terrifying.
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I’m sharingthis because I can’t be the only one who feels this way, who goes through thisset of feelings and thoughts when they’re starting something new, when they’revoluntarily putting themselves in a position where they know they’ll be forcedto grow — and it’s a great accomplishment just to find yourself among that subsetof the population, I’d say.
When we talkabout tech entrepreneurship – about dev teams and VCs and marketing strategies andviral campaigns – we never talk about the fear that goes hand-in-hand with theexcitement and opportunity of the startup world. We never talk about how thisrisk/reward proposition we’ve all assumed manifests for us emotionally. We’renot really a touchy-feely crowd. So everyone goes around assuming that they’rethe only one who thinks about it.
Nearlyeveryone battles thoughts like these – even folks who have built tens ofsuccessful startups and just got funded for another one. (Perhaps those peopleeven more so, because a failure is infinitely more visible.)
But ifyou’re here, if you’re even reading anything posted on Seattle 2.0, odds areyou have a pretty kick-ass whisper voice. That you, too, have something burieddeep inside you that tells you that you can do anything you set your mind to,even if it’s comparatively quiet on some days.
Listen tothat voice. Listen to the critter chatter, too. Separate the two, and be awareof which one’s talking at any given time. When you hear the critter chatter,thank it politely for sharing, and move on. It’s a vicious lie, but the mentalenergy it creates as it buzzes around in your head can be repackaged and used tohelp you move forward, toward your entrepreneurial goals.
Next week Iwill talk about how burning sage in your new office space helps clear outnegativity left by the previous occupants, and how best to move energy throughcrystals if you’d like to secure a spot in this summer’s TechStars.
I’m kidding.After this post, I’ll probably have to write next week’s post entirely in Rails tokeep this job.
Bring it on.